TL;DR

The Big Head from Erotixxx Toys is an anatomically shaped dildo, inspired by a human penis, with a prominent head, a veined shaft, and large testicles integrated into the base. Tested here in XL size (75% Soft), it requires a pronounced initial entry before sliding in easily thanks to its straight, flexible body, delivering deep stimulation.

The head plays a central role in the sensations, creating a pronounced back-and-forth effect, while the shaft consistently presses against the walls. The veins, highly visible to the eye, remain smooth to the touch during use.

Stable, well-designed, and made from high-quality platinum silicone, the Big Head is aimed at those who want direct, enveloping stimulation without extravagant shapes or excessive difficulty.

Where to buy the Big Head

A meeting that turned into a collaboration

Before getting to this review, here’s how I first came across Erotixxx Toys and how this partnership came to be.

Simplicity and efficiency from the start

I stumbled upon the brand almost by accident, spotting some of their models listed on the Mr. Hankey’s Toys website — a sign of recognition that made me want to learn more. After an initial exchange that led to an interview published on the site, the idea of doing a product test came naturally.

At first, I was only expecting to receive one model: the Sea Monster, chosen for its intriguing design. But a few days later, a FedEx tracking email informed me of a package weighing over 9 kg. Erotixxx Toys had decided, entirely on their own, to send me four models, covering all costs themselves.

It was a clear gesture of professionalism — and it kicked off this series of reviews, which began with The End Zone, followed by Goblin King, then the Sea Monster, and now the Big Head.

A simple yet well-thought-out packaging

The packaging is in line with what Erotixxx Toys usually offers: simple but sturdy. Each toy is carefully wrapped in thick plastic, with no box or unnecessary extras. Everything arrived in perfect condition despite the weight of the package.

A discreet branded sticker marks the company’s identity. It’s not flashy, but it’s clean, tidy, and functional.

One downside: there’s no storage pouch, which would make long-term storage easier and more hygienic. A fabric or non-stick material pouch would be a welcome addition.

A straightforward anatomy built for pressure

Available in four sizes and three silicone firmness levels, the Big Head goes for a straight, realistic, and structured shape, with a defined head and a flexible shaft. It’s made for those who want consistent pressure without elaborate forms or excessive texture.

A well-calibrated intensity curve

From the Small to the XL version, the Big Head offers a steady, well-balanced increase in volume. The large, rounded head defines the toy’s personality but still allows for a measured progression if you choose a size suited to your experience level.

  • Small – An accessible version, perfect for getting familiar with the shape without pressure.
  • Medium – A mid-step with more bulk and a stronger presence.
  • Large – A solid size that already requires regular practice.
  • X Large – A piece best reserved for advanced and well-prepared users.

Each size comes with a dimension chart available directly on the product page, making it easy to anticipate the handling and fit of the toy.

Size NameSizeUsable sizeCircumference at headCircumference at midpointCircumference at base
Large33.66 cm22.1 cm20.07 cm20.83 cm34.54 cm
X Large37.47 cm25.15 cm22.86 cm23.37 cm39.12 cm
Small25.4 cm16.51 cm14.99 cm15.24 cm25.7 cm
Medium29.21 cm19.3 cm17.53 cm18.16 cm30.23 cm

A firmness choice that changes everything

As with the brand’s other models, the Big Head can be poured in three silicone firmness levels, which have a big impact on the sensations. From a plush feel to a firmer, more insistent pressure, each density gives the design a different character.

  • 40% Soft – Very flexible, it follows the body’s curves and softens the texture details.
  • 75% Soft – A balanced compromise between flexibility and support.
  • Med Firm – For more direct stimulation and a stronger push against the walls.

In European stores, firmer versions are rarely available — usually only 40% and 75% Soft are in stock. To get a Big Head in Med Firm, you’ll need to order from Erotixxx Toys’ official site.

Options vary depending on the retailer

The official store offers a wide range of colors: classic or metallic finishes, bright shades, UV-reactive or glow-in-the-dark effects… The toy can be fully customized by density, size, and color.

European distributors, on the other hand, offer far fewer choices. At Gaymegastore, for example, the Big Head is only available in flesh tone, with no variation possible.

For a broader selection — or to configure the toy to your exact preferences — you’ll need to order directly from the manufacturer. This may mean higher shipping costs and potential import taxes, depending on your country.

Raw realism, with no mystery or detours

When I first unboxed the Big Head, my reaction was as straightforward as its design: a sizeable dildo, yes, but with zero ambiguity — it’s a penis, plain and simple. No hybrid elements, no strange textures, no fantasy creature: everything here points to a familiar anatomy, scaled up and left raw.

This isn’t the type of design I’m naturally drawn to. Yet behind this bluntness is a precise, deliberate sculpting that fully embraces its concept.

Amplified anatomy with its own style

The Big Head follows the classic form of a human penis, but in an oversized version with an intentionally structured build. The head, wide and rounded, stands out as a thick mushroom-shaped tip, with a clearly visible meatus and a ridge marked by subtle folds.

From there, the shaft runs straight, fully covered in prominent, irregular veins winding across its surface. Their density and depth give the dildo a rich texture, but also push it into the realm of exaggeration: not quite pure realism, but a stylized version that’s almost too pronounced to pass as entirely natural.

The base is formed by large, wrinkled testicles flowing directly from the shaft. Their size and detailing reinforce the anatomical look without any attempt to stylize or abstract it. The only break from strict realism comes from the flat base, engraved with the maker’s URL, which ensures the dildo’s stability.

A style that’s not for everyone

This type of design embraces a clear aesthetic: that of the human penis, scaled up, without frills, humour, or second-degree interpretation. It’s a style that can appeal for its directness or visual impact, but for me personally, it feels more distant compared to more abstract or imaginative designs.

That doesn’t take away from the product’s build quality or overall coherence. But if you’re looking for a toy that plays with unusual shapes, symbolism, or fantasy, the Big Head clearly isn’t headed in that direction.

Unexpected effectiveness revealed in use

Beneath its classic appearance, the Big Head delivers a real surprise once in action. While its design didn’t initially win me over visually, the sensations it provides quickly propelled it into my favourites. A dildo that doesn’t rely on formal originality, but makes up for it with an impressive ability to rub, press, and push—exactly where it counts.

Deep, consistent, and targeted stimulation

What stands out first is the presence of the head, which acts like a true sensory lever. Wide, flexible, and mobile, it gives each movement the feeling of an internal elevator: moving up, sliding down, and catching sensitive spots with almost mechanical regularity. It’s direct, marked stimulation that’s hard to ignore.

The very flexible shaft follows the movement without resistance. When slightly bent, it presses along its full length, creating a particularly pleasant pressure. In use, the veins—so visible to the eye—are barely noticeable, keeping the sensation smooth despite the textured look.

Insertion happens in two distinct stages: first, getting past the head, which may require patience or a good warm-up, then a smoother glide until the final few centimetres, which may, depending on anatomy, require extra relaxation to take fully.

A stable base and an easy-to-guide body

The Big Head stands upright without support. Placed on a flat surface, it stays steady and doesn’t tip over during use.

The sculpted testicles serve a practical purpose: they provide a solid grip point for guiding, holding, or repositioning the dildo while playing. The base also features a Vac-U-Lock hole, opening up possibilities for use with compatible accessories.

A dildo that benefits from a methodical approach

The Big Head isn’t a wild or extreme toy, but it’s not one to take lightly either. Its straight shape and moderate texture may seem simple, yet the wide, pronounced head creates a definite entry challenge. This isn’t a toy you just slide in on a whim: you’ll need time, relaxation, lube, and a bit of preparation to keep the experience smooth and enjoyable.

That’s also part of its strength: once you’ve cleared that initial step, the rest of the shaft settles in naturally, delivering constant contact and a gradual filling sensation.

Entry and lubrication: setting the right conditions

Since the head is the widest part of the dildo, it deserves special attention. Without warm-up or enough lube, it can put up real resistance—not painful, but enough to stop you in your tracks. Starting with a smaller toy earlier in the session can make this step easier.

Using a water-based lubricant generously is key. A smooth start means the shaft can then slide in easily, right up to the final few centimetres, which may still require extra relaxation depending on your anatomy.

Cleaning and storage: thinking ahead

The Big Head is easy to clean with warm water and mild soap. The sculpted details (meatus and folds) can hold onto some lube or residue; careful cleaning by hand or with a soft brush will keep the toy in good condition.

The dildo stands upright on its own, making it easy to air dry. However, like all silicone toys, it shouldn’t be stored in contact with unstable materials (TPE, PVC, etc.). Since no storage pouch is provided, a breathable fabric bag (cotton or linen) is recommended to avoid surface reactions and keep it clean between uses.

Big Head: straightforward design, memorable sensations

The Big Head doesn’t try to impress with an unusual shape — and that’s exactly what might give a mixed first impression. An anatomical dildo, without fantastical elements or complex textures. But it would be a mistake to stop at that first glance.

In use, it reveals remarkable effectiveness: its wide head acts as the engine for deep sensations, while the flexible shaft presses exactly where it should, and the whole thing works with surprising consistency. Its texture doesn’t overwhelm the feel, its stable base and comfortable grip making every movement easier.

Less flashy than some of the brand’s other models, it more than makes up for it with precision and consistency — a simple form delivering deep stimulation that goes far beyond what its appearance might suggest.

Where to buy the Big Head?

The official Erotixxx Toys website offers the Big Head in four sizes, with a choice of three silicone firmness levels and a wide range of custom colours: skin tones, metallic finishes, two-tone, UV-reactive or glow-in-the-dark. It’s the best option if you want a made-to-order dildo, choosing the exact size, firmness, and look you prefer.

From European retailers, Gaymegastore carries the Big Head in all sizes, in flesh colour and 75% Soft silicone. It’s a quicker, simpler option with no customs fees, but no customisation choices.

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With its amplified anatomical shape, flexible shaft, and massive head, the Big Head delivers direct, constant, and enveloping stimulation. A toy that goes straight to the point — and surprises with its effectiveness where you might not expect it.

The Big Head in pictures

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